I have always had my best friends, and their best friends, and best friends, and other friends, and a few of the worst of friends. And I always knew that I was only going to have one relationship with anyone. And it doesn’t matter which one is the best or the worst.
Many of us have some form of relationship with a significant other. That’s what I mean by relationship. In the same way that I am a married man, I am also a married man with a best friend. But our best friends aren’t my best friends anymore, and they’ve become my worst friends. This is a sad state of affairs, especially for those of us who have been married for years.
Marriage is not a long-term commitment, but neither is it a short-term affair. A new spouse will be in your life for what seems like an eternity and will be a part of your family, and that should be enough to make you consider the possibility that you have a better idea of what life is all about.
That said, my best friends are awesome, and they are married to amazing people. So they tend to have a very specific view of what life is all about, and that tends to be the opposite of mine. It’s like a bad car accident but not one that kills you.
I’m not saying that it’s not a great idea to have a wedding band, but it’s just really important to make sure that you are happy with it in the first place.
While I love a good wedding band, I don’t wear one. My fiancee is a very serious and conservative person who doesn’t wear any jewelry. He makes a point of buying me things that are all silver, and I just like it because it’s so elegant and classic. I’m sure most people would agree that it’s just a little bit too much to wear a piece of jewelry that you’ve just been given, but I don’t.
The same could be said about a wedding ring. A wedding ring is the most important of all things to a couple. The most important of all things in a relationship that you are going to have for the rest of your life. Think about for a second how you would feel if you were marrying someone who didn’t wear a wedding ring.
Like my wedding ring, I never wear a wedding band. That’s not because I don’t like the idea of wearing one to be honest. I just don’t like the idea of getting married and having to think about putting it on. It just doesn’t seem like “the right time” to me. There is no wrong time in a relationship, but there are different wrong times.
That’s what I’m trying to say. The wedding band is the one you’re going to wear all of your life. The engagement ring is the one you’re going to wear after your wedding. If you’re engaged then you’re not getting married and you arent getting engagement rings. If you are already getting married then you’re already getting engaged and the engagement ring isnt relevant.
The marriage band is what you wear on your wedding day. The engagement ring is what you wear once you know you’re getting married. The wedding band is not the one you will wear to your wedding. It is just the one thing you will wear on any occasion.